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모든 출구는 어딘가로 들어가는 입구다
every exit is an entry somewhere.

영국 극작가 톰 스토포드  Tom stoppard


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심리학책 답지않게 직접적으로 담백하게 적어 읽고 이해하기 편하다.

프레임을 좌우하는 것 중 하나가 바로 '이름' 이다. 여러 영역 중 이름의 영향을 가장 심각하게  받는 영역이 바로 돈이다. 돈에 붙여지는 이름에 따라 돈을 다르게 쓰게 된다는 이 단순한 원리 하나만 잊지 않고 산다면 큰 부자는 못되더라도 지혜로운 부자는 되고도 남을 것이다.

프레임 by 최인철

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애벌레가 나비가 되고 나면, 자신은 처음부터 작은 나비였다고 주장하게 된다. 성숙의 과정이 모두를 거짓말쟁이로 만들어 버리는 것이다.

George vaillant

Vaillant, G. E. 1977
Adaptation to life. Boston : little brown.


https://ko.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/조지_E._베일런트

조지베일런트는 어려서 아버지의 자살로 인해 정신과의사가 되기로 결심을 했다고 한다.

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사랑하라, 한번도 상처받지 않은 것처럼

알프레드 D. 수자 (Alfred DSouza)




Dance, like nobody is watching you.
춤추라, 아무도 바라보고 있지 않은 것처럼.

Love, like you've never been hurt.
사랑하라, 한번도 상처받지 않은 것처럼.

Sing, like nobody is listening you.
노래하라, 아무도 듣고 있지 않은 것처럼.

Work, like you don't need money.
일하라, 돈이 필요하지 않은 것처럼.

Live, like today is the last day to live.
살라, 오늘이 마지막 날인 것 처럼.



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Happiness Is A Journey
Alfred D'Souza

For a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin , real life. But, there was always some obstacles in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinnished business, time still to be served or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you share it with someone special, someone special enough to spend your time with. Make the most of your time. Don’t waste too much of your time studying, working, or stressing about something that seems important. Do what you want to do to be happy but also do what you can to make the people you care about happy.

Remember that time waits for no one. So stop waiting until you take your last test, until you finnish school, until you go back to school, until you have the perfect body, the perfect car, or whatever other perfect thing you desire.

Stop waiting until the weekend, when you can party or let loose, until summer,spring, fall or winter, until you find the right person and get married, until you die, until your born again, to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy.

Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
Love like you've never been hurt.
Dance like nobody's watching.
Sing like nobody's listening.
Work like you don't need the money.
Live like it's heaven on Earth.

幸福是一段旅程
Alfred D'Souza神父

长期以来,我都觉得生活——真正的生活似乎即将开始。但,总是有一些障碍,一些必须先完成的事情,一些没有完成的工作,要付出的时间或要偿还的债务。之 后,生活就会开始了。最后,我突然醒悟到,并没有一条通往幸福的道路,幸福本身就是路。因此,珍惜你所拥有的每一个时刻吧,当你和某个特别的、值得你与之 分享你的时间的人在一起时,请加倍珍惜吧。最大限度地利用你的时间,不要浪费太多在学习、工作或一些看似重要的事情上。做你想做的以使自己快乐,同时做你 能够做的以使自己关心的人快乐。

记住,时间不会等待任何人。因此不要再等待某个时刻吧——等到完成学业以后,等到回学校以后,等到你拥有完美的身体、完美的车、或其他什么你想要的完美的 东西之后。不要等到周末,等到你工作或退休,等到夏天、春天、秋天或冬天,等到你找到合适的人结婚,等到死,等到再次出生的时候,才明白没有任何时间比此 刻更应享受快乐的了。

幸福是一段旅程,而不是一个终点。
去爱吧,就像不曾受过伤一样
跳舞吧,像没有人会欣赏一样
唱歌吧,像没有人会聆听一样
干活吧,像是不需要金钱一样
生活吧,就像今天是末日一样

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힘든가요? 


종의기원을 쓴 찰스다윈이 아래처럼 말했답니다.






It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most
intelligent, but the most responsive to change

Darwin - 


- 살아남는종은 강한 종이 아니고, 또 똑똑한 종도 아니다. 변화에 적응하는 종이다.



그 외, 

- 바보는 인생에서 시도를 하지 않는 사람이다.


- 만약 내가 다시한번 살 수 있다면, 적어도 나는 일주일에 한번쯤은 시를 읽고, 음악을 듣는 것을 습관으로 삼을 것이다.


- 약간의 뛰어남이 승리를 가져온다.


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Recently, when i look myself can find out my face lost smile, also it could make me think that i'm having a hard time. 


i was surely to regret about my past times at early and mid 20". but i know surely that it wouldn't help me for go to the next way. so i decided to forgot thinking about it. 


that regrets, i would think just when i have some rest time long after i have a job. 



yesterday, i watched the chinese drama what named 爱情公寓(Ai Qing Gong Yu: The Apartment of Love) comic drama. 

because i've watched Friends of well-known drama by everybody, though AiqingGongYu copyed that contents from Friends on the many parts. but it's actually not to same between expression with Chinese and English. 


nowadays, i've watched this drama just whenever i feel i'm sad right before i'm going to sleep. 

anyway, i watched the words what comes to in my mind yesterday. 


it is the scene when the one actor are persuading one actoress said this.


the actoress got the mind of very sad because she knew she are going to 30 years old through the birthday party of one friend. so she got to scared and sadness mind. also it just looks like that she can't laugh anymore. 


but one of the roommate started to persuade her about we shouldn't think like that simply why it is. 


"many person think that we got a old as times goes by, and they also think their mind are changing to old involuntarily

"so just you think you are old now, right that you changed to be old then"

"i think we would be young to after 50years old through keep the mind of young"


he said probably like it.. 

though the words from this drama is not so same with my situation, 

but i realized i should think more postively and i'm a only man who can't take care myself in directly and close to.




* involuntarily: 나도 모르는 사이에 (in·   vol·un·   tar·  i·ly )


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